In this message, Christian Braly walks us through one of the most theologically rich and culture-confronting chapters in Ephesians. With humility and clarity, Christian unpacks what it really means to walk in love, walk in light, and walk in reverence. He contrasts biblical love with cultural definitions and challenges us to live as children of light—imitating Christ, embracing holiness, and letting our lives bear witness to the power and presence of God. Whether you’re single or married, wrestling or strong in faith, this is an invitation to live our true identity in Christ...without shame, but with intentional grace.
Ephesians 5:1–2, 8–10 (NASB 1977)
“Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma...For you were formerly darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of light… trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord.”
Context: Paul writes to believers in Ephesus, a city steeped in idol worship and cultural confusion, passionately urging the church to walk in ways that reflect their new identity in Christ.
Discussion Questions:
Where in your life do you tend to confuse performance with identity?
→ Christian reminded us that we imitate God not to earn love, but because we already belong.
What kind of “love” do you default to—cultural love or biblical love?
→ Cultural love is often self-serving. God’s love is rooted in truth and commitment.
Are there areas of your life that remain hidden “in the dark”? What keeps them there?
→ Walking in the light involves exposure, not through shame, but God's presence and grace.
How is your marriage—or closest relationships—reflecting (or resisting) gospel-shaped love?
→ Submission, respect, and sacrificial love aren’t about hierarchy but holiness.
Christian called trying “evidence of life.” What’s one area where God is inviting you to keep trying?
→ Even imperfect progress is beautiful if it’s moving toward Christ.