Introduction

In this week’s reading of Paul’s book, he takes us deeper into what it really means to belong—not as a reward for our behavior or beliefs, but as a starting point. Through stories of the rich young ruler, the woman at the well, and Nicodemus, we see how Jesus consistently led with love before challenge. Belonging isn’t just a strategy—it’s God’s original design. And it’s not vague and sentimental either. It’s table-shaped and rooted in Scripture—from the prodigal son to a late-night Pharisee meeting. Jesus invites us into a love that goes first, that looks us in the eyes, and that sets the table long before we’ve cleaned ourselves up.

⌘ Space to Belong (Icebreaker)

Introverts unite (quietly). The woman at the well came at noon to avoid people. Nicodemus waited until night. What’s your go-to strategy when you need a little people break?

⌘ Space to Believe (Scripture Focus)

Let’s look at Mark 10:21, Romans 5:8, and Luke 22:14–20.

“Jesus looked at him and loved him.” — Mark 10:21

“But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.” — Romans 5:8

“When the hour came, Jesus and his apostles reclined at the table… he took bread, gave thanks… ‘This is my body, given for you; do this in remembrance of me.’” —Luke 22:14–19

Context:

Jesus meets people where they are—before they understand him fully, before obedience, before theology is sorted. His love isn’t delayed until we clean up. It comes first, again and again throughout Scripture.

Discussion Questions:

• What stands out to you in these verses? Is there anything new for you to believe or obey?
• When do you think you first truly realized that Jesus loved you—not for what you knew or did, but simply because you are His?
• Which picture of love hits you hardest: Jesus looking with love, God rescuing while we were “still sinners,” or Jesus breaking bread at the table?

⌘ Space to Become (Application)

1. How have you experienced the love of Jesus “while you were still…” something?
   • Think about a chapter in your life where His love surprised you or found you first.
2. In what ways do you struggle to receive that kind of love right now?
   • We can believe in grace and still try to “earn our seat at the table.” What gets in the way?
3. Where might Jesus be inviting you to create space for belonging in someone else’s life?
   • A neighbor, coworker, tired parent, college student? Sometimes it starts with a simple invite.
4. What tables in your life could become sacred spaces of belonging?
   • Your dining table, breakroom, coffee shop booth—you don’t need a pulpit to love like Jesus.
5. What would change if you lived as if you already belong to God—completely loved before doing anything “right”?
   • Would it shift your identity? Quiet your fear? Shape your relationships?